Eeehhh! I remember the first time I tried asking a lady out in church, after scheming for weeks and plotting my maps I didn’t have the guts to walk up to Vivian and tell it to her face, so I stylishly got her number from a friend and decided to call her up. You guys won’t believe the horrible thing I did, after days of rehearsals on what to say, I finally called her up one evening and dummest thing that could come out of my mouth was “hi, my names is Vivian, can I speak with Allison?”.. Like seriously? And she didn’t make it any easier for me; the response she gave was “sorry, Allison is not around, bye bye.” And she hung up. It was later when I replayed the brief convo in my head i realized how foolish somebody can be, how can I go and say my name is Vivian, you mean I cannot even remember my own name again? haiii,



But hey, before you starting laughing at me let’s admit it, a lot of you Christian guys are like me, shy when it comes to asking a Christian lady out or initiating the conversation. So on a lighter note let me bless your weekend by sharing these tips with you, feel free to use it anytime, it’ll give you a great way to get things started;

1.. “So last night I was reading the book of numbers, and then I realized, I don’t have yours!”



2.. “I wish you knew that you float my ark”



3.. “is it hot in here. Or is it the Holy Ghost burning inside of you?”



4.. “ I don’t mean to sound prophetic, but I can see myself buying you pizza next weekend”

5.. “Your hair is as beautiful as a flock of lambs’ descending from Gilead”



6.. I am a proverbs 32 kind of guy, and I really want to meet your proverbs 31 kind of woman”



7.. “excuse me, is your name Faith? Cos you’re the substance of things I’ve been hoping for”



8.. “what is your name and number so I can add you to my prayer list?”



9.. You are as gorgeous as Eve, and I believe one of my ribs belongs to you”



10.. “I wish I was Joseph…. perhaps you could help me interpret the dreams I’ve been having about you”



11. “I wish this was the time of Noah, I really would love to walk into the ark with you as a pair”



12.. “now I know why Solomon had 700 wives….because he never met you”

13.. “Just want you to know that for you I would slay two Goliaths and run away”



14. “His word says ‘give drink to those who are thirsty, and feed the hungry… so how about dinner with me tonight?”



15. “I know this might sound awkward, but every time I walk towards you I feel like am being led to Bethlehem”



16.. “Each time I look at you I see the transfiguration… cos you are always glowing”



17.. “i didn’t know angels like you flew this low”



18.. “Every time am around you I practice speaking in tongues, cos I always run out of things to say”



19.. “Am not trying to say am a good shepherd… but I’ve left 99 sheeps to come and find you.”



20.. I don’t know again, you add your own. 😃


Am sure you have no excuse to start a conversation now.








Allison Bisongs is a Writer, Counsellor and Life Coach.

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I am the Founder and Executive Editor of Core Magazine. I hold a Bachelors Degree in History and International Studies from Bowen University. I am the Author of "DARE TO RESEARCH". I have written and published over 16 Academic Research Articles. I believe in an ideal that all persons irrespective of their race, class or status can influence the society with creative writings and constructive thoughts to the point where they can succeed and develop their skills to seize rare opportunities.

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