Finance Lifestyle Motivational 

Discipline Series: PART IV Financial Discipline

DISCIPLINE SERIES: PART IV FINANCIAL DISCIPLINE   This has to do with the way one spends. The question to ask yourself here is:  (1) How do you spend? (2) What do you buy? (3) Why must you buy? Before a person can spend you need to have a scale of preference. A scale of preference is the arrangement of things according to its importance. Before you buy anything, you should have a list of what you want to buy stating clearly the purpose for the spending. Having the scale of…

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Motivational 

Discipline Series: PART III Mental Discipline

DISCIPLINE SERIES: PART III MENTAL DISCIPLINE   This has to do with the maturity of the mind(i.e. the way you control your mind to behave). You can learn how to discipline your mind by filtering what you think. If you can’t control your thoughts, then it means you are not mentally disciplined.   HOW TO BE MENTALLY DISCIPLINED (1) Learn to think positively in the right way. Don’t be pessimistic say good words to your self every day especially when you wake up. This is very essential because words spoken…

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Lifestyle Motivational 

Ireoluwa by Adetutu Adedoyin

  IREOLUWA Hey little grown-up one, Before I begin, please tell me they call you by your rightful name? I mean the one I know you by; the one I would probably call you before I think of any other one you were given. My heart aches because I think the answer is negative. It doesn’t exactly matter as long as they know who bears whichever of your names they have chosen to call you. okay okay! I am getting distracted Almost all my life, you have followed me. I…

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Motivational 

Discipline Series by Titilope Abiona (PART II)

  DISCIPLINE SERIES: PART II  PHYSICAL DISCIPLINE It has to do with the outward manner and way of things. It could be in form of: (a) Posture (b) Eating habits (c) Relationship with people(i.e communication skills).   (a) Posture refers to the way we carry our body. It could be the way we sit, talk, walk, and stand. As a lady, there is a way you sit to cover your body and there is a way you walk without pushing your chest out and there is a way you ought to…

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Lifestyle Motivational 

Discipline Series by Titilope Abiona (PART I)

DISCIPLINE SERIES: PART I Discipline means an orderly or controlled behaviour. It is also the training of people so that they obey orders and control their own feelings and behaviour. There are different categories of discipline which include: (1) Spiritual discipline (2) Physical discipline (3) Mental  discipline (4) Marital discipline (5) Financial discipline (6) Emotional discipline.   PHASE 1   SPIRITUAL DISCIPLINE This simply means the way one behaves towards the things of God. There is a proper and good manner of communicating with God and even in church. Let’s…

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Lifestyle Motivational Relationships 

Most times we chase stones when we already have all the diamonds we need

Uhmm, She’ll be here snubbing all the guys asking for her number everyday because she has you; While you’ll be on the other side asking every girl you meet for her phone number… — bro, that is FOOLISHNESS! The same way you get cold and lonely at night longing for the warmth of a woman is the same way she gets cold and lonely at night longing for the warmth of a man. The difference is that she’ll be here fighting temptations and ignoring all the calls and pings from…

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Lifestyle Motivational Relationships 

The 5 Most Important Things You Need for Your Relationship to Last

“When we’re incomplete, we’re always searching for somebody to complete us. When, after a few years or a few months of a relationship, we find that we’re still unfulfilled, we blame our partners and take up with somebody more promising. This can go on and on–series polygamy–until we admit that while a partner can add sweet dimensions to our lives, we, each of us, are responsible for our own fulfillment. Nobody else can provide it for us, and to believe otherwise is to delude ourselves dangerously and to program for…

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Creative Writings Motivational Non-Fiction 

FORECLOSURE: Never You Say You Understand When You Have Not Been There

  WHEN LOSS HAPPENS; Have you ever felt like your heart is being ripped from your chest? You want to cry but the tears are too heavy to fall. Then you wonder if it’s all some kind of test or its just you or the pain is also felt by the rest. Even then, how could anyone understand how you feel? its surreal nature makes you wish to wake up to the reality your heart wants to believe but your head is telling you something totally different. Every second feels…

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Lifestyle Motivational 

What Do You Live For, To Impress or To Express?

  “It is better to live your own life imperfectly, than to imitate someone elses perfectly,” said Elizabeth Gilbert You were born to live your life to its fullest, the potentials to live my life to its fullest have been deposited in you. The question now is, how do you actually utilize your potentials to its fullest? Is it when you live your life to impress or to express it? You see, these potentials are in you, they are yours and they are your stepping stone to greatness if fully utilized. Well,…

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Lifestyle Motivational Relationships 

Relationship: Every time she ask if I am doing alright I just smile and say, Yes

If you have never read anything from me before, please read this to the end, please, Let me confide in you about something; Last weekend i heard the news, came as a flash, my mentor was getting a divorce, the two people I look up to for motivation are filing for separation, two people who I thought cannot afford to live without each other for a day, getting a divorce. It broke my heart, completely, since I got the news I haven’t been able to write or do anything productive,…

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